How To Word Wedding
Invitations
Art, in general, is the appreciation of
beauty. It implies order and harmony of parts in a given
whole.
Human life does not imply merely physical survival. It is a
vocation towards the refinement of the spirit. Hence, the
demands of daily life include and derive meaning from the
cultivation of those traits that truly reflect man’s innate
dignity. In this context, ethics is considered an art. However,
there are art forms that are different from those that are
considered as ethical
For this reason, certain actions of man must be in
proportionate to the ethical standards as dictated by man’s
innate dignity. One of which is how we should use words in
different functions.
Take fore example the wordings in a wedding invitation. Careful
use of words and establishing them correctly is very crucial in
wedding invitations. This is because wedding invitation are the
first-hand symbol of the wonderful celebration that is about to
take place.
Any misused, abused, or unethical choice of words may result to
misunderstandings or misinterpretations between and among the
guests.
Generally, wedding invitation wording should be clearly
established to avoid confusions and misconception. There are
instances were words may have several meanings depending on how
it is used in a sentence.
Moreover, the wordings must accurately define the details of
the wedding like the date, the exact time, and the place where
the wedding ceremony will take place. These things should be
clearly stated because there are cases wherein most guests
directly assume that once they are invited, it means that they
are asked to attend to the wedding ceremony and the
reception.
However, there are some weddings that the couple would usually
invite people just for the reception. In this case, the couple
has decided to make the wedding very private and that they only
want their immediate relatives present during the ceremony. The
guests are asked to attend on the reception already.
Hence, to avoid confusion and delusion, it is best to carefully
state in the invitation the purpose of the invitation.
On the other hand, wedding invitation wordings may also vary
depending on certain circumstances that the couple has no
control of. An example is the concept of who paid for the
wedding.
In this instance, it is best to choose words that would pay
respect to the party whom the recognition is due but should
also be made in conformity with the ethical standards, in which
the feelings of the other party should be considered also.
For example, if in case that the bride’s parents are the ones
who had paid for the wedding, then, the wordings on the wedding
invitation should state that it is the bride’s parent s who are
requesting for the presence of the guests.
Alternatively, the setting of the wedding should also be
considered when establishing the wedding invitation
wording.
If the wedding is informal and will only take place in a home,
then it is best to replace the usual words being used in formal
invitations to a more casual tone but still with respect.
Boiled down, any kind of wordings will do when making wedding
invitations a long as the words are in conformity to the
ethical standards set by the society and as patterned on the
innate dignity of man.
Best of all, the details of the wedding should be clearly
stated, otherwise, the wedding invitation will definitely lose
its main purpose.
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