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Make Love Not War The Secrets
Of A Successful RelationshipThe term ‘making love’ has different meanings to
different people. In general, in human nature, on TV shows
and in movies, the term making love is used to define a
tender moment of intimacy between two people. Yes, it
usually indicates the act of intercourse, but it is
supposedly describing it in a more substantial and
meaningful way. The term making love is supposedly meant to
imply something beautiful, something romantic ~ to create
love. It is used to intentionally deter from giving the
vision or thought of sex as being something obscene.
The term ‘making love’ wasn’t always used to depict the actual
act of having sex. It was used to describe something more pure
and even innocent. In the old days, the words ‘making love’
were used to describe any romantic, intimate gesture. Something
as simple as a kiss, a flirtation, an expression of devotion,
or even a dance was defined as ‘making love’. Times sure have
changed, haven’t they? The days of wine and romance seem to be
long gone, but for some of us, the words ‘making love’ still
hold a special meaning.
Everyone at one time or another has probably been told, or they
themselves have said to another – I’m not just having sex with
you, I’m making love with you. Of course, those statements are
not always made with the utmost genuineness. It tends to give
the term a bad name when used in those circumstances. But
hopefully, common sense or gut instinct will let you know when
it’s not being said to you in all sincerity. If not, and you
realize at a later time, chalk it up to experience. Live and
learn, then move on and acknowledge the lesson.
But hopefully you have a partner who does acknowledge the
significance of the words ‘making love’ in their true sense. It
should be an intimate and passionate experience. Making love,
in the actual sense of the term, can be one of the most
fulfilling exchanges of trust between two people. So choose
your words wisely people, for tomorrow they may come back to
haunt you.
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