Marriage Or
Prostitution
It is said that prostitution is the
oldest profession in the world. To prostitute means to give
someone the right to use the body for a sum. Do all the
prostitutes sell their bodies for money only? Some might be
selling their body for food, or a gift or something else. So,
we can say that prostitution means selling the right to use the
body for something in exchange.
I want to talk about a marriage where a woman sold her body for
money and also few other things. She is the heroine of this
story and lives in a conservative society, where pretenses are
at times more important than truth. Our heroine was in deep
love with a married man but had no guts to say so. Therefore
she agreed to marry the villain of this story, a man who
proposed marriage in front of her father. While getting married
to this person, she cheated him. She lied to him by hiding her
real love. But that is not the point of my story. Let me come
to the basics.
Our heroine was married to the man/villain in full public view,
so she had no reason to deny that marriage unless she divorced
him. She never loved him, but carried on with this man and let
him brutalize her in all the ways possible. At times, he raped
her seven to eight times a night. Was this a marriage or did
she sell herself like a prostitute for something?
Let me elaborate further. What did she get in return of giving
away her body? Her parents had spent quite a lot of money on
the wedding. If she divorced this man, her parents might have
got a bad name in society. I am talking of conservative
countries and not developed nations. So the first thing she
gained by selling her body was the peace of mind her parents
got by looking at their daughter. That peace was totally false,
because the daughter was neither truthful to them nor to
society. But even knowing all this, the parents had a peace of
mind that the society thought about the daughter as a happily
married woman. Let the reality be totally different. It were
pretenses that mattered. So the first gain - False peace of
mind for parents that society thought of the heroine as a
happily married person.
There are many more things, all totally wrong that our heroine
of the story got for selling her body. Let us look at some
more. This girl had got a baby out of getting repeatedly raped
by this man. The baby called this man/villain her father and it
seems that the father loved the baby. Why and if it is really
true, is known only to this man. But outwardly he showed love.
A man who can brutally use a woman's body repeatedly, can love
anything living is impossible to comprehend. But this was shown
to the society. Our heroine got her second payment as a man
called father for her daughter out of rape.
What else? This man/villain said that he had no one else except
our heroine in the world to call as his own. He knew it very
well that the heroine was not in love with him, but had married
him under compulsion of so many other factors. But he
emotionally blackmailed her saying that if she left him, who
else was there for him? Please therefore stay with me, keep the
pretense of a married couple in public and let me rape you
whenever I wish to do. The third profit was emotionally giving
into the blackmail of a brute.
Let me list one more gain, though there were many more. Our
heroine had no strength of character or guts to come open and
say that I want to separate. She did not want to face the
possibility of living alone. She did not want to lose her
respect in the society. So she continued. And the biggest gain?
Before I tell you about that let me add something. Our heroine
was in love with someone else as I told you in the beginning.
This man wanted her to come to him and denounce the marriage to
the brute. He was desperate for that because he could not
tolerate the rapes. They were killing him. But if our heroine
does that what would she tell her daughter when she grows up?
She had no guts to tell her daughter the truth. So she
continued prostituting herself not only in body but also in
mind, character and truth. In the whole process, she managed to
kill a person who was in deep love with her and could not
tolerate the rapes. She gave him a bigger blow when he realized
that she believed in living a liars life forever. This man got
totally broken and might have killed himself, if God had not
saved him. I wonder if our heroine, the brute or the parents
will ever get any peace. Untruth never gives peace but shows
the path to hell.
Who is a better person? A prostitute who openly trades or our
heroine? Make your own decision.
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