Read The Letters Carefully
And Learn More
About Your Beloved One
You can meet someone really great online.
It can either be a long distance relationship with bride
or even someone from your city or state. Both of you seem to
have perfect match and you can't wait to get her next letter.
But are you sure that she truly likes you and her intentions
are serious? How do you know that your correspondence have all
chances for future serious relationships and she is not just a
pen pall and waist of your time? Here are the communication,
relationship, and attention signs to make everything clear
before you meet your lady.
Correspondence
Dating has never been easy and especially online dating.
Online dating is a completely different way of communication
comparing with communication face to face. You don't see
mimics, gestures of your lady and you don't know how she reacts
on things that you share with her in your correspondence. The
only thing you have is her letters, but how can you find out if
her letters sincerely show her interest to you? In fact even a
simple letter can tell you so much about your lady and her
intentions.
- She asks you questions. Person who is really interested in
getting to know you will always ask questions about you, your
life, family, friends, work, daily life, etc .
- She makes comments on your letter. If your lady is
seriously interested in you and if she doesn't reply to
you just in order to be polite she will always make
comments on what you wrote. She will try to express her opinion
on this or that point, give you a piece of advice, express her
sympathy or supply answers to your questions and talks openly
even if you ask her about her life issues, plans for future,
ambitions in life, finances, fears, children and past
relationships.
- She compliments and praises you. If your lady is really
serious about you she'll always compliment and praise you on
your character traits, physical appearance, achievements in
life, the way you treat her and so on.
- She is open and honest with you about her feelings. She
tells you if she is happy or upset about you and explains the
reasons.
- She always tries to reply you on time. If your lady
replies your letters on time this means that she can't wait to
get your next letter and she enjoys your correspondence.
Bad Signs:
- The only thing she asked about you was your favorite
colour and what paper you read.
- She doesn't tell you how she feels about you and she never
shares her plans for future with you.
- She promises you to answer to your questions or to make
comments on some very important issue that you rose in her next
letters, but never fulfills it.
- She calls you James when your name is John.
- She always asks for excuse about her late reply or short
letter.
Relationships
Any relationships and especially online relationships can
rarely survive without mutual support, care, understanding and
trust. Every person who is interested in another one tries to
share happy and sad moments together, solve things together,
support and encourage each other.
Good Signs:
- In a crisis she tries to support you and say words of
encouragement no matter what happened. Expressing her care,
attention and concern to your achievements or faults she'll
show that she is not indifferent to you, your life and to
everything that is about you.
-She drops the «I» or «you» and starts referring as «we»
-this means that your lady considers you and her as a whole and
the one. She expects having common aims to reach, plans to
fulfill, problems to solve and moments to share.
- She starts sharing small details of her life with you
starting with her work affairs an ending with what she had for
lunch. She will try to share even small details of her life
with you in order to feel you closer to her with a hope you do
the same in return.
- She asks for your advice on questions that are important
for her. This will show you that your opinion is very important
for her and she takes into consideration your point of
view.
- She wants to develop your relationship and take it to a
new level. Your lady doesn't want just to exchange letters with
you, she wants to speak with you on the phone, she starts
speaking about your future personal meeting, future life
together and so on.
-She decided to stop or doesn't want to start corresponding
with other men and wants to concentrate all her attention on
you. She is sure that you are the right for her and she doesn't
want to waist her time on others.
-She told her close people and relatives about your
correspondence and how wonderful she feels about you. If
relatives and close people of your lady know about your
existence and even ask her to say «hello» to you, or you start
talking with her children if she has one, this means she is so
proud of having you as her partner or at least as potential
partner.
Warning Signs:
- She doesn't pay any attention on what you share with her
no matter if it's your achievement or fault.
- In her letters to you she speaks only about herself and
her life and she doesn’t care about you and your routine.
- She never speaks about possibility of taking your
relations to a more serious level and she tries to avoid such
kind of questions.
Attention.
Attention is very important part of relationships. When
there is lack of attention to another person it usually means
indifference and lost of interest. This is so important to show
how much you care about your partner and about those who mean
so much for your partner and especially on some special
occasions and dates.
Good Signs:
- She remembers the names of your close people, relatives
and friends that you mentioned in your letters. If your lady
calls your sister, friend or children and uses their names
instead of «your son», «the friend you told me about» - this is
a really good sign. This means that she is not just interested
in you, but in everything and everyone your live is about. In
her letters to you she asks not only about you, but about
people who are important for you.
-She never forgets to congratulate you with your holidays
whether it's Birthday, Christmas and New Year, St. Valentines
Day or any other holidays. Lady who has deep interest in you
will always try to make something pleasant for you. Likebride
does. She can even send you a parcel by post or at least an
e-card to express how she feels about you. By the way, if your
lady forgot to congratulate you with Independence Day of your
country or with any other national holiday which is important
to your country, don't worry and relax. This doesn't ,
country, population, noticeable places and shares her
impressions with you.
Warning Signs:
- She remembers about your birthday only when you tell her
what a great Birthday party you had.
- She is never interested in names, age, interests and life
of your close people (children, parents, brothers or
sisters).
- She doesn't even remember what city or country you are
from.
These Good and Bad signs are very helpful not only to find
out about the level of interest to you but to treat your lady
in a right way. Show her your interest in communication, ask
questions about her life, share your opinion and give her a
piece of advice on questions that are important for her,
compliment her, show her your care by sending her some special
gifts from you and NEVER forget: if you want strong and healthy
relationships you must work on them. Be aware and objective
about your relationship. If you can't nurture it, then it may
be time to stop. If it's strong, then building upon mutual
respect, attention and communication will only make it
stronger.
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