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Victorian Theme Wedding
PlanningThe Victorian era
wedding ceremony is usually governed by the religious
formularies of the church to which the bride and groom may
belong, which chooses the clergyman for its
performance.
The bride has typically two bridesmaids, and the groom the same
number of groomsmen. However, it is possible to alter the
number of bridesmaids and groomsmen. It is merely a guideline
not a law, and it may be modified. The appropriate Victorian
ceremony is normally performed at 12 o'clock in the day, at the
church, which is first entered by the bride resting on the arm
of her father, uncle, or the person is to "give her away." Next
comes the groom along side the mother or closest female
relative. The groomsmen and bridesmaids, arm in arm follow the
bride and groom. The closest relatives complete the procession
to the altar, where the bride and groom take their places in
advance, with the parents closely following, and the rest
gathered in a group around them.
The groom is responsible for presenting the wedding ring, and
have it in readiness at the appropriate moment when called upon
to place it on the brides ring finger. The ring is placed on
the third finger from, but not counting the thumb of the left
hand.
After the marriage ceremony is complete, the question now and
then arises whether the bride is to be kissed by the groom.
Historically, the kiss is considered improper behavior, but it
is, of course, common practice today. In conclusion, friends
and family in the church congratulate the bride and groom.
Elderly relatives may kiss the bride in congratulation. Queen
Victoria herself was kissed by the Duke of Sussex, but not by
Prince Albert.
The newly weds then return to the bride's house together,
taking precedence of all, and, on arrival, assume a standing
position at one end of the reception-room and await the coming
of the invited guests, who, as they enter, are presented by the
groomsmen to offer their congratulations. The usual breakfast
or dinner closes the Victorian marriage ceremony.
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