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What Questions Should You Be
Sure To Ask
Your Online Dating E-Friend:
Online dating can be very entertaining and gratifying.
Since its inception, online dating had continuously brought two
people together in spite of the fact that they are worlds
apart, with lands and waters separating them. Online dating
made bridges to connect people together, enjoy each other, and
build dreams together.
However, there are instances wherein people do not just connect
to an online dating site and instantly find somebody whom they
can share the rest of their lives with.
Online dating is a continuous, systematic process. It entails
careful selection of words, pictures, and representations of
the person involved in order to get the best results. Moreover,
from the time they get to find somebody they think they are
compatible with, the process continues as they get to know each
other through a series of messages, chats, and other forms of
communication.
Along with this comes the careful selection of words used and
messages conveyed in order to establish natural, free-flowing,
yet enlightening conversations. These are not just mere
exchange of words and phrases but more on the verge of getting
to know each other.
Hence, it is extremely important to know which questions to ask
so that the person can get a better sense of who the other
person is on the other side of the virtual screen.
Here are some of the questions that one should ask to his or
her online dating e-friend in order to assess the personality
and the attitude of the other person. These questions are
specifically inclined to provide the necessary information
regarding an individual’s personal conviction on certain
matters and his or her own preferences on things.
Those who are involved in online dating just have to keep in
mind that when asking these questions, they should make it
appear very natural so that they will not sound like they are
being confrontational.
In addition, those who will ask these questions should be sure
that they are also prepared to answer the same.
1. What is the major error that people make when online dating
for the first time?
This question will illustrate some idea about how the other
person views the opposite sex. In this way, one could get an
insight on the attitude of the other person and his or her
personal beliefs on some important matters like dating and
relationships.
2. What are you looking for in a guy/girl?
With this question, an individual can get hold of the qualities
that the other person is looking for in a companion.
However, one should take note of how the other person tries to
answer the question. If in the event that he or she replies
with the usual “sense of humor,” chances are, the other person
has not yet thought about the answer.
3. What is a really successful relationship?
One could get a good view on how the other person values
relationship. It would be better to hear the other person
provide an answer regarding how the two persons who are
involved in the relationship should work together as they grow
and have a better sense of personality.
4. What is your view on online dating services?
Through this question, a person will be able to know if the
other person had some serious negative experience concerning
online dating or the other way around. In addition, through the
answers of the other person, one could guess if he or she is
still willing to consider online dating or not.
5. Did you fail on your last relationship?
Most people would certainly blame the other person in the
relationship. Others blame their selves too much. It would be
better to hear some answers like they (the couple) equally
share the blame and that it is just time to part ways.
The point in asking these questions is to establish a solid
foundation on the kind of personality and attitude the other
person has. It is when keeping the communication line open that
matters most.
The problem with a lot of people involved in online dating is
that most of them do not have any idea how to carry the
conversation and how to keep the lines burning. They do not
know what questions to ask and how to assess the answers that
they get.
Boiled down, asking some reliable questions will give the
person an edge over a lot of things. Hence, he or she will be
able to assert that when the time comes that they have to meet
personally, the concerned person will be ready to face his or
her online date.
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